I hate how we as women we complain about being viewed as objects yet we submit and obey to the ones who objectify us. Take music videos for example; are you telling me you are forced to participate in the music video? I do not think so. Some would say "I wanted to be in his music video because i needed money" , won't you just use your brain for better things. What happens is that we tend to think too little of ourselves, set boundaries saying A is too far from E. Yes that is the way it should be. If you jump from A to D without passing through B and C you will get burnt. DIY and stop depending on the same men that you accuse of abuse, sexual harassment and rape.